----- Original Message -----
Sent: Wednesday, July 17, 2002 3:16
PM
Subject: Erotic retardation
exchange
Dear visionaries,
Troy Merrill writes:
"If I found
the sight of a bare breast caused me to consider being unfaithful to my wife I
would examine the depth of my committment to the marriage not place blame upon
a woman that chooses to bare her breast. But I'm not a
trinitarian."
And
again, amen. A man who was physically unfaithful to his wife because of
topless car washes had to have had an egg-shell thin commitment to her in the
first place. But we are talking about something else. Many husbands who are
physically faithful to their wives want to disrespect their wives and
other women through letting their eyes just help themselves. They think it is
just "a little thing, no harm done. It was just a once over" -- the kind of
thing that exasperates many women constantly. I was talking about those men
who want to avoid disrespecting women in such "little things," and who very
much appreciate those women who respect themselves and who show it in
how they dress.