shahab on soap

["Shahab Mesbah" <moscadmin@moscow.com>]

My dear friends,

 

in the recent past we have had the unpleasant experience of reading rather offensive messages going back and forth through this medium. I would like to make some observations if I may.

 

I have been advocating that people should express themselves freely and not "hide" the true thoughts and views they have. the discussion going on about school prayer and Columbine is a perfect example. We have to respect the fact that some of the friends may be offended by statements made by others in this setting. I also think we need to express ourselves thoughtfully instead of in anger. I would like to see us discussing issues and expressing our opinion but not insult each others belief or opinion.

You may or may not believe in God... I will respect you the same; I do not think it is appropriate to belittle those who do or those who don't. The fact is that neither side can "prove" their point so it becomes a mute point. I think we need to avoid ridiculing people for their belief. I think we need to avoid insulting each other. I think we need to avoid threatening each other.

Make your points and let us discuss the issues without anger. Respect is like freedom... it is earned; if we do not act responsibly and treat each other with respect... we can not expect civility and respect from others.

 

your brother in arms,

 

Shahab...